Soul Sisters

 

  I always thought that I was one of a kind. There was no one like me. My habits, my behaviour and my way of handling things were unique. This made me feel out of place at times. I secretly wished that I had a twin sister. Someone who would know how things are for me. Someone who would understand why I am the way I am. Then I met her. She was just an acquaintance at first. As time passed, I got to know stuff about her. We shared our experiences, our opinions and our thoughts. It was amazing how we turned out to be so similar. We had a lot in common. 
  We had the same preferences, the same opinions regarding certain things. It was so good to finally meet someone like me. Although we weren't related, she was no less than a sister to me. We were soul sisters. The striking similarities between us caused me to give away this title to her. She is one person with whom I can share things that can't very shared by anyone else. This is because I know she sees things from a similar perspective. She knows how and why I judge certain things. I love her company. I adore her personality. Maybe because she's a lot like me. Or even better.

What's the good in news if you don’t have someone to share it with?

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  There lies some truth in the saying that Opposites Attract. But that does not mean that people run away from those who are similar to them. It is always a pleasure to find someone who is like you in many ways. Everyone needs such company. Everyone needs someone who knows how the world appears through their eyes. It was always good to have someone who has the same interests, the same way of life, and the same mentality as you. You can always discuss what you have in mind, because mostly you both will find yourself at the same path. There are certain things about you which no one may understand, but this person does. Probably because she's been through the same. Such a person will know what is to be said to put you in the right mood.
  You may not be related to this person actually, but you hold them close to your heart. They are a reflection of what you are or what you want to be. There are so many things that you can learn from them. So many things that you can teach them. Such a person has answers to all the unexplained questions that spring up in your mind. It is always a blessing to have someone who is so similar to you in your life.

A Soul Sister can be seen as someone who is both ourselves and very much not ourselves - A special kind of double.

Nightmares of Losing You

He occupies such a prominent place in my life. Now that he has been with me since so long, I kind of cannot imagine life without him. I am extremely dependent on him. My life revolves around him. I love to be with him always. Together we are a perfect couple. The mere thought of having a future with him is overwhelming. I want things to be this way forever, and change only to get better with time. There are days when I make plans about our future, fantasies that take me to a heavenly place. He is my obsession.
But then there are these real bad days when all those negative thoughts creep into my mind. On such days, I cannot stop myself from thinking about the worst possible outcomes of this relationship. The clear image of the future begins to blur. I think of ways of making him stay if he ever decides to leave. The very thought of which scares me. Those negative images are somewhere buried deep down in my mind and crop up on such days, making them all the more miserable. I try my best to ignore them, but these thoughts are involuntary. Maybe they are God's own way of telling me how much I love him. 

My only nightmare is waking up in a world where you aren't mine.

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When in a relationship, people go through all sorts of mixed emotions. These emotions may be good or bad. The good ones are heavenly, but it is the negative ones that are difficult to tackle. There is a constant fear of any casual argument turning into a serious one. 'What if he gets bored and walks out of our relationship? What if he says that he doesn't want me anymore? What if he finds someone better?' These are a few of the many conclusions we derive. These are emotions which everyone in a relationship faces. Trust me; you aren't the only one out there.
These are all phases. Phases that are a part and parcel of relationships. Every relationship goes through bad times. Such situations are nothing but a trial period of your relationship. This involves insecurity, jealously, depression and other cynical emotions. The only cure is trust. You have to trust your relationship, trust your partner and most importantly, trust this love which holds you together. You should be sure of your feelings for him. If all this is done, other things would hardly be a problem then.

You will always be afraid to lose someone, afraid they may find someone better than you. You just can’t help that. It just happens as soon as you start to get too attached to someone. You don’t want them out of your life. Ever.