Tuesday, 2 February 2021

He is a treasure!!

He acknowledges my qualities; he has seen me at my worst. He completes me. It is almost not possible for me to imagine life without him. He tolerates all my moods, consoles me when I’m down. We can chat for hours and not even realize. We discuss goals, plans, hopes, friends, fights, relationships. He knows when to offer advice and when to let me be on my own. I respect him. We rarely have fights or arguments. We give space to each other in our own way. He understands even when I’m not explaining! Neither is he perfect nor am I, but together, we are beyond compare!

And people think we're 'together'. They think we are 'in love'. I wish these people are lucky enough to experience such a bond at least once in their lifetime. Probably then they would know how this friendship is much more special than any love affair. I am in love but not with him. I am in love with our friendship, in love with that special feeling of togetherness, in love with this beautiful bond.

Yes, A Girl and a Guy can remain 'just friends'. Forever!

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Friendship isn't a strategy with 'conditions apply' starred over it. It never comes with a set of rules and regulations. There are no restrictions based on gender, status, or appearance. Like love, even friendship just happens. You can almost instantly connect with a newfound friend if you are compatible. And if not, you will find yourself stuck at the starting point, even after years. A girl and guy's friendship is exceptional, in its own way. There are no tantrums, no breakups, and no patch-ups. There is no jealousy or insecurity involved. He makes you feel great about yourself all the time.

You love him, in a way that no words can describe. He is the first person you'd want your boyfriend to meet. One moment you're sad, and the next instant you are laughing your ass off, thanks to him! Relationships may come and go, but you know he'll be there for you, always, an immovable pillar of strength. Someone in whom your faith is so firm that it defeats the strongest of adversities.

Just because Bollywood has portrayed strange ideas about platonic relationships, doesn’t mean you believe them!

Sometimes all a girl needs is her guy best friend! 😊