What it means to be Loved!

          I feel elated. I’ll never be alone. Immaterial of whatever I do or say, I’ll have someone who would be there for me... Always. Someone, who will make an ordinary moment seem magical. One, who would care for me more than anybody else. The person who will drop everything to be with me at any time no matter what the circumstances. Someone who will entertain me when I'm bored, crack jokes for me when I'm sad, try all that is possible to just make me feel at ease. Someone who will be my companion in happiness and a shareholder of my grief.
          I feel so grateful to have someone like that in my life. Not many have the blessing to have someone who loves you so selflessly, the kind of person who brings out the best in you and makes you want to be a better person. A person who makes sure that no misunderstanding ruins the bond. But I am fortunate. I am loved. I don't think I'll be able to love anyone back in the same way, ever...

To be deeply loved means a consent to cut yourself wide open, exposing your vulnerabilities... hopes, hurts, fears and flaws. Hiding behind the highlight reel, of who you are, is the real you! And that person is just as worthy of love. There is nothing more terrifying or fulfilling than complete love, it's worth the risk... reach for it.

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          Everyone wants to be the jewel in the crown! Everybody wishes to be loved. All of us yearn to be pampered. We crave for affection. Not many have their wish granted. And those who do, often don't realize it's real worth. Such relationships are taken for granted. We often think that no matter what we say or behave, he will never let the relationship fall apart. This is one of the biggest delusions. 
          Everything in life has to have a balance. If this balance is disturbed too often, the relationship is in jeopardy. We have to acknowledge the true worth of such a person and try to reciprocate whatever we can, whenever we can. The one thing that we can never give enough is Love. It takes a beautiful soul and a priceless heart to love someone so deeply and if you have one, treasure it. Wake up and realize its real worth before it slips away from your hands.

Live every moment, Love every day, because before you know it, precious time slips away.....

Distance Sucks

          I had butterflies in my stomach. It was almost as if we were meeting for the first time. I was ready an hour before the actual set time. He always says that I look good in black, so I wore a Black outfit. Everything was pre-planned; I did not want to mess up things at the last moment. I saw him after almost a year. He used to send me his pictures, but today, I had him 'live' before my eyes. After so long, I heard him calling me all those mushy names, I was able to hold his hand. The distance which was in miles had then been cut off to meters, temporarily though. I made the most of my time with him. I used this time to create wonderful memories; memories that would help me survive without him long after he is gone.

          Time without him doesn't pass by that easily. I feel disheartened whenever I see couples walking hand-in-hand all around me. I wish to be one of them. Without him, I can sense this vacuum all the time. This emptiness consumes me.

We are a Perfect couple; we are just not in the Perfect situation.

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          Thanks to the ever advancing technology, the number of Long Distance relationships have increased manifold. Facebook, Twitter, E-Mails and other social sites connect people across borders and oceans. It is so easy to fall in love with someone who is miles apart. But the tough part is to 'stay' in love even after you realize the fact that he won't be beside you always. He won't be there to console you. He won't be able to take you to Movies or Parties. The anticipated number of dates would decrease manifold. You will not be able to hug him each day in order to let him know how much you love him. You will not be able to feel his presence around you, and the sense of security that comes along with it.

          There will be fights, heated arguments and insecurities involved. But once you manage to get through them, the relationship will be on the right track. Distance means so less when someone means so much.

Missing someone gets easier day by day. Because even if you are one day farther to the last time you saw him, You are a day closer to the next time you will.